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BEHIND THE SCENES OF THE CASINO INDUSTRY: WRITING CASINO QUEEN


Me in my beautiful garden in Palms Springs!


A few weeks ago, I was interviewed by The Desert Sun. The main theme of their interview and all the articles that have been written about Casino Queen is that this is a story about a strong woman. Here is an excerpt from their review, “Casino Queen” arrives at the perfect time when crime-solving tales that revolve around strong female protagonists aren’t just a luck of a draw. They’re downright successful. (See TV’s "Equalizer" and "Poker Face" for samplers.)

Booksbywomen.org is the online magazine for the Facebook group, Women Writers, Women’s Books. It’s creator Barbara Bos wanted to have a supportive place for women to talk about books and the writing process. I wrote an article for them in which I explained the inspiration for my novel. With their permission I am reprinting it here at my blog. Hope you enjoy it. If you like to write or you like to read be sure to check them out. 

WOMEN WRITERS, WOMEN’S BOOKS

I worked in the casino industry for a long time. As a child watching Ocean’s Eleven, casinos seemed so grown up and glamourous. They were open 24 hours, which made them so alive. On a summer hiatus from teaching school, I drove to Lake Tahoe Nevada and quit my job. I never felt lonely working in the casino. I later worked for Princess Cruises traveling the world as a croupier. I met my Scottish husband on the Star Princess, and when we left ships, we moved to Palm Springs where Native American casinos had just opened. Since we were experienced dealers with connections, juice, we were hired the first day we arrived in town. It was boom time in America, the economy in overdrive, it seemed like the party would last forever.

We were in good company, at the same time thousands of people from all over the world had the same idea and were flocking to the desert to find work. Some of those people had escaped from some of the most oppressive regimes on the planet. Compared to that, handling an unruly gambler probably seemed like a piece of cake. What I admired about my co-workers is that most of them arrived in the United States penniless and worked hard to make their American dream come true. A casino is a multi-cultural environment where every day I learned a lesson about their culture and their stories. I found myself in awe of their resilience. Whether they came from Afghanistan or Communist China, everyone quickly adjusted to life in America. They just got on with it, they didn’t have time for self-pity. 

The characters in my book were familiar to me from my two decades working in the casino industry. Fortunately, my boss was the most charismatic tribal chairman in America. I really loved my employers and my job. People always asked me, “What’s a nice girl like you doing working in a place like this?” Now I can honestly say, “Research.” Through the years I took writing classes to hone my craft. The characters in my head just kept letting me know how they wanted their story told. All the pieces of the story came together in an organic way to capture that special time and place when gaming arrived in Southern California. 

I wanted to tell the story of a strong but relatable woman, because I worked with so many smart independent women. When my main character Caroline Popov loses everything Tribal Chairman John Tovar throws her a lifeline. The other reason I wrote Casino Queen was to give the readers an insider’s look of what really goes on behind the scenes in the gambling industry. I know that I like to learn something when I read a novel, and from the reviews, I know that my readers really love that aspect of the book. I want them to step into Caroline’s shoes and feel like they have a connection with the Shotowa tribe. 

I found the perfect backdrop for Casino Queen in the High Desert of Southern California. A refuge for artists, ex-Marines and desert rats. The brilliant blue sky framed the chocolate mountains in the distance. The rocks at Joshua Tree National Park looked like giant Jenga pieces precariously balanced, ready to fall. Located about an hour from Palm Springs, we loved hiking in the park, an isolated place near the largest Marine base in the world. The Night Hawk casino near that base became the setting for my novel. 

Writing a thriller, is like designing a jigsaw puzzle where every piece has to fit, but it can’t be too obvious. The most challenging scene I wrote was the climax of the book. You know the place in the thriller where the crime and the villain are revealed and the protagonist lays her life on the line. For me it was important to write a realistic novel, one that could actually happen. I also had to tie up all the plot points. But most importantly I wanted the ending to be a surprise and you can tell me if I succeeded once you read Casino Queen. 

What you don’t know reading my novel is that the series was inspired by actual incidents so coincidental that if you put them in a novel, they would sound like a contrivance. We arrived in Palm Springs and got married three weeks later. My husband’s roommate from the cruise ships was the best man at our wedding. Dave, left his job at our casino and moved to Albuquerque to take a job as a shift manager there. Working there he met Julian and encouraged him to move to Palm Springs for greater opportunities. Even though they switched places they couldn’t avoid their fate. They were both murdered under mysterious circumstances. 

The casino industry has been good to me, but I always witnessed corruption just perfect for a thriller. Schemers and thieves operated on both sides of the tables. Millions of dollars passed through the casino every week, casino fleas operated their personal side businesses on the gaming floor, and you never knew who might walk through the door itching for a fight. My hope is that after reading Casino Queen you will walk into a casino more aware of what goes on behind the scenes.

Here is the link to the original article in Women Writers, Women's Books

Behind the Scenes of the Casino Industry

I love interacting with readers. If your book club is interested in reading Casino Queen just email me at carabertoia@yahoo.com. I will provide your group with questions, and I will appear on Facetime, Zoom or WhatsApp to talk at your meeting. I will also answer any questions you have about casinos and gambling. 
 

Cara Bertoia is the author of the critically acclaimed Casino Queen, a new suspense novel published by The Wild Rose Press. She has drawn from her years in the casino industry to create a fascinating thriller. It is all true although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. It had been featured at The Big Thrill and Women Writers Women's Books and at many other sites. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption. 

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. With her life on the line can she pull out a win?

 

                         To check out my interview in The Big Thrill, click the link below.

 

Casino Queen by Cara Bertoia | THE BIG THRILL

Cara Bertoia's first book is Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships. Her novel is really a travelogue, a narrative, a romance, a self-help manual for gambling and cruising, and a real-life story all rolled into one funny, obsessive, and entertaining story of two people whose separate life journeys meet at a crossroads. Kindle Fire Dept. says, "This novel is a gem that is nothing short of a vacation in a book!"
                                                                


Below is the links to Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships to buy at Amazon or read as a part of Kindle Unlimited. Cruise Quarters Amazon

 


To Win at Romance You Need a Basic Strategy of Love -- Cruise Quarters on sale for $.99 at Amazon and on KU

 


RAY AND I ENJOYING A DAY OFF IN THE CARIBBEAN

I love reality shows like 90 Day Fiancé, Love Is Blind and my all-time favorite, Married at First Sight. I will watch anything if the goal of the show is a good relationship, love or marriage. I call myself The Hopeful Romantic, because I met Ray and married him four months later. We could have qualified for 90 Day Fiancé because he was from Scotland. So, I hold these shows close to my heart.

On Married at Frist Sight couples meet at the altar. They have never seen their person before and don’t know anything about them except for the fact that they have been matched by experts. If one of the partners doesn’t like the looks of the other one there is almost no chance that the marriage will survive. Chemistry can make or break the relationship. In Nashville when Gina told Clint that she didn’t like gingers my heart broke for him. I thought he was really cute. Then the next day he said she wasn't as slender as the girls he usually dated. I see divorce in their future. The dynamics of how couples do or don’t make things work fascinates me. Especially if I can watch their stories safely from the comfort of my living room.

The show brings back that terrifying time after college when life was full of possibilities and fraught with loose connections. I dated guys when I didn't know if they were my boyfriend or not, but I was too afraid to ask. I also dated guys who I promptly dumped because they were too nice. Sometimes a bad haircut was all it would take and once a guy got dumped for bringing me a single rose, a very nice gesture. I would have happily signed up for the show because my picker was definitely broken. The experts had to do a better job than me.

In my twenties I was teaching high school and though I loved my students, why wouldn't I, we were about the same age! But the thought of staying in my hometown and teaching for the next forty years filled me with torschlusskpanik, the German word for the fear of missing the boat. I left for California, got a job dealing in a casino and never looked back. My job was sorted out but I still kept dating the bad boy, the elusive, uncommitted one I was going to make fall in love with me.

It took me a long time to sort myself out get married and live happily ever after, but I finally met my Mr. Right, while working on a cruise ship. We decided to tell our story in Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships. Stand behind a blackjack table for years, deal to thousands of couples and you learn a thing or two about people. Gamblers know that to win at blackjack you have to play basic strategy. In our novel Sarah (my alter-ego) learns from her past mistakes to write her own basic strategy of love. Maybe hers can help you take some shortcuts, but probably not, we all have to suffer our own heart breaks. Everyone needs to throw away the self-help book they are reading and write their own.

Below is Sarah's, if you come up with a new strategy leave a comment here or e-mail me at carabertoia@yahoo.com. I have put Cruise Quarters on sale for $.99 this week (Feb 10 to 17) to celebrate Valentine’s Day.

                           SARAH SELDON’S BASIC STRATEGY OF LOVE

 1. It’s a sure bet that if someone doesn’t introduce you to his family, he thinks there is something wrong with you -- or his family.

 2. It is a mistake to fall for a strong silent type; you will get tired of doing all the talking, and he will get tired of doing all the listening.

 3. Don’t fall in love with someone who is a challenge; if you want a challenge, go climb Mt. Everest.

 4. It is not important that you share all the same interests, only that you are both open to new and different things.

 5. Some people think a relationship has to include drama; without drama it can’t be love. Drama is just drama, not love. If you want drama, go see a play.

 6. The first time someone cheats is never the last time someone cheats; it is just the first time someone cheats.

 7. Never get involved with someone who blames all his problems on others; you will soon be one of the others.

 8. If there is something wrong in a relationship, you know it. He stops looking you in the eye, he doesn’t call every day. People always have a tell. They always leave a clue, you just have to look for it.

9. In love as in cards, it's hard to walk away from a winning streak, even harder to leave the table when you're on a losing one. Always know when to give up the dream and walk away.

 10. The golden rule of love is this: always be with someone who likes you just the way you are, quirks and all. Always love someone just the way they are. You can change sheets, not people.


Cara Bertoia is the author of Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise ShipsHer novel is really a travelogue, a narrative, a romance, a self-help manual for gambling and cruising, and a real-life story all rolled into one funny, obsessive, and entertaining story of two people whose separate life journeys meet at a crossroads. Kindle Fire Dept. says, "This novel is a gem that is nothing short of a vacation in a book!" She would be happy to do an online chat with any book club reading her novels. Contact her at carabertoia@yahoo.com



Cara Bertoia is the author of Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise ShipsHer novel is really a travelogue, a narrative, a romance, a self-help manual for gambling and cruising, and a real-life story all rolled into one funny, obsessive, and entertaining story of two people whose separate life journeys meet at a crossroads. Kindle Fire Dept. says, "This novel is a gem that is nothing short of a vacation in a book!"She would be happy to do an online chat with any book club reading her novels. Contact her at carabertoia@yahoo.com


Below is the links to Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships




Her second novel, Casino Queen is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry, although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. 

"Glitter, grifters and greed collide with high stakes mystery and suspense in Casino Queen. With her in-depth knowledge of the casino world, Cara Bertoia takes readers on a wild ride through the High Desert that leaves you hungry for more." - Rob Samborn, author The Prisoner of Paradise

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength. With her life on the line can she pull out a win?

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Casino Queen (Night Hawk Casino Series Book 1) - Kindle edition by Bertoia, Cara. Mystery, Thriller & Suspense Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

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Casino Queen by Cara Bertoia | NOOK Book (eBook) | Barnes & Noble® 




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I Would Like to Thank the Readers That Take the Time to Review Books

Jeff at the Temple of Athena in Delphi, Greece

Jeff is holding a copy of my second novel Casino Queen set in the High Desert and Palms Springs. It is about my years working in a Native American casino in California. I know that whenever I want to read a book the first thing I do is look at the reviews. Not the critics reviews I rely on reader reviews. Most readers review books where they buy them, but some go to BookBub or Goodreads among many online sites to answer the question, what does the average reader, someone like me, think of the book? And even if they don't want to write a review, they can always rate the book. You know where you check a box 1 through 5 depending on how much you liked the book. 

I have a few things to say to my reader reviewers, thank you, thank you, thank you. Recently my book was featured at Women Writers Women's Books and the first thing that a potential reader will see if they click on my link will be my reviewer rating, the thumbs up that an author really needs. It is nice to know that people who read Casino Queen really enjoyed it. Everyone knows that writing is a solitary pastime. There are so many hurdles to being a writer that sometimes you wonder why you do it. It's because you have a story to share. I feel like I have the best readers in the world!
 
My path to writing was years in the making. I was dealing cards in a Lake Tahoe casino. The casino owner was a plumbing contractor from Fresno. The head of security was an ex-Mossad officer and every few weeks we would be strapped down and given lie detector tests. They allowed porn movies be filmed in the casino and there were rumors that he rigged the slot machines. I’m not sure if that was true but he did manage to get his casino closed down by the Nevada gaming commission, no small feat. One day a sports agent with Hollywood connections played on my game and encouraged me to write down all my great casino stories. That was the day I became a writer. Well my script got as far as HBO where it was promptly rejected but that didn’t matter, I was a writer.
 
A year later I went back to the real world and became a systems analyst by day, writer by night. I lived in Boston, the home of perpetual students and so I was able to take writing classes and join critique groups and improve. After a few years I began working on an MFA in writing at Emerson because they were connected to Hollywood. Well, just before I was scheduled to intern in Los Angeles as a script reader I got the opportunity to join Princess Cruises as a croupier. My choice was spend my dwindling savings on an internship or get paid to see the world. I wasn’t scared of going - only staying. The Germans have a word for it torschlusskpanik, the fear of missing the boat.
 
I stayed working at sea for five years and I would like to say that I wrote every day, but I didn’t. I spent those years soaking up all the history I could. The ship was my home and the crew bar was my living room. The nights I spent there were research since I planned to tell the story of all my crewmates someday. And then on my last contract I met Ray a Scotsman who became my husband. My novel turned into a love story and that surprised me more than anyone else.
 
After leaving ships we settled in Palm Springs, and I began writing my novel 'Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships'. There were years of writing and editing, rewriting and more re-writing but finally I decided my novel was ready to face the world. You would think that when it is published the hard part is over, but it is only beginning. Then your job as an author is to do everything you can to get the word out to readers and after that you wait for that special reader to find you.
 
And now my second novel Casino Queen is out.  It draws from all the years I have worked in the casino industry. I wanted to build a story that took the reader behind the scenes of the casino industry, present relatable characters, and tell a really engaging story with a believable plot. 
Rosaleen at Ubiquitous chip in Glasgow, Scotland 
 
But then you turn on your computer one day and you look up your book at a review site, and you find something like this.
 
5.0 out of 5 stars Robert
There are two things I really look for in a good read, first I want to go inside a world that’s unknown to me. Next. I want to be surprised when I finally get to the part where the “who done it” is revealed. Casino Queen hit it for me on both points and one more. I love Palm Springs California the setting for the story. For over a decade I attended the Palm Springs film festival and saw a lot of films and even more celebrities, writers, directors and artists of all types. 
 
5.0 out of 5 stars Debbie S.
A unique look at casino operations, with so much suspense!
Such great character development and depiction – I could see and hear every character as I read. The Coachella Valley and High Desert were also told from an insider’s point of view, rather than just as a backdrop for the story. As were the casino operations and roles, both on the floor and behind the scenes. Very well done. This was a super-fast read because the suspense just kept layering. There were red herrings and real hints, but as the reader I wasn’t sure which was which. I could not solve the mystery until it was laid out for me, which to me is the sign of a well written book.
 
 
Lori Caswell wrote:
I started reading Casino Queen and could not put the book down. I stayed up late because the story had a slow build that grabbed a hold of me and wouldn’t let go. Soon the story became so surprising and suspenseful the pages were flying so fast there should have been steam coming out of my Kindle.
 
Susie Black wrote on BookBub:
Part romance, part mystery, part redemption, and a second chance at life, Casino Queen does not disappoint. Gaming industry pro Cara Bertoia has penned a taut tale that weaves an insider’s view of the world of casinos with a heart-pounding plot that keeps readers interested long after bedtime. The deftly written plot moves at a good clip and is driven by love, loss, trust, betrayal, family ties, and the inner strength one must summon to accept responsibility for the consequences of one’s decisions. Bertoia has created a cast of flawed, but believable characters who drive the plot, and readers find themselves rooting for them right from the first page. Bertoia creates enough conflict with a backstory and throws in a couple of clever red herrings to keep readers turning the pages to see how it all turns out.
 
 Those readers all wrote a review so good that I think I could use any of them as the perfect blurb for my book. They got it. It was even hard to decide which reviews to include in this post because I loved them all so much. Susie, Robert, Lori and Debbie along with all my other readers knew exactly what I was trying to do when I wrote my book. That alone makes all the hard work worth it.
 
It is not easy to write a review. In fact, most readers never write a review. You have to go back to the site where you bought the book or a review site after you have read the book and write your review and submit it. I also think reviewers like all writers suffer from performance anxiety. They are putting something out there for all the world to see. There are also readers that go above and beyond that post their reviews at multiple sites and since I started writing the number of review sites just keeps growing.
 
Proud Momma wrote a fantastic review of my book and brought up points in the book that I had taken for granted but that really caught her attention as a reader. TK always wanted to know what it was like to work in a casino and now she does. Susie loved my three-dimensional characters. I re-wrote my dialogue a hundred times to make my conversations sound natural and nuanced. Sandy Young a great writer and the author of the paranormal romance Divine Vintage, took my book along with her on vacation. I have received so many pictures of people carrying Casino Queen across the globe. They will never know how much seeing those photos thrills me.
 
I use reader reviews all the time as a reader. I love to know what actual readers are saying about a book because they are the ones who have purchased it. Their opinion can sway me to click that buy button. I particularly enjoy going back to the review page after reading a book, it is like having you own book club where you get to discuss the book with readers from around the country.
 
I know that other writers feel the same way about the reader reviewer. I belong to a fantastic network of writers. Writers love to post their reviews. They glory in every five-star review. Because everyone knows you don't write for the money but to tell your story. And the reader reviewer doesn't write for money either but out of the love of books. Let me end with a thank you to all the readers writing reviews, the people that make it all worthwhile, keep them coming. And remember readers the best thing that you can do for an author when you like a book is to write a review, but if that is too daunting, they will be very grateful for nice rating. 

I love interacting with readers. If your book club is interested in reading Casino Queen just email me at carabertoia@yahoo.com. I will provide your group with questions, and I will appear on Facetime, Zoom or WhatsApp to talk at your meeting. I will also answer any questions you have about casinos and gambling. 
 

Cara Bertoia is the author of the critically acclaimed Casino Queen, a new suspense novel published by The Wild Rose Press. She has drawn from her years in the casino industry to create a fascinating thriller. It is all true although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. It had been featured at The Big Thrill and Women Writers Women's Books and at many other sites. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

 

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. With her life on the line can she pull out a win?

 

 

 

                         To check out my interview in The Big Thrill, click the link below.

 

Casino Queen by Cara Bertoia | THE BIG THRILL

Cara Bertoia's first book is Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships. Her novel is really a travelogue, a narrative, a romance, a self-help manual for gambling and cruising, and a real-life story all rolled into one funny, obsessive, and entertaining story of two people whose separate life journeys meet at a crossroads. Kindle Fire Dept. says, "This novel is a gem that is nothing short of a vacation in a book!"
                                                                


Below is the links to Cruise Quarters - A Novel About Casinos and Cruise Ships to buy at Amazon or read as a part of Kindle Unlimited. Cruise Quarters Amazon

 

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THE TOP TEN THINGS WORKING BEHIND THE BLACKJACK TABLE HAVE TAUGHT ME ABOUT LIFE & LOVE -- BECAUSE LOVE IS THE BIGGEST GAMBLE OF ALL.

                               TALES FROM BEHIND THE FELT                  



                 

For most of my career I have worked at casinos, on land in California and Nevada, and at sea all over the world. Let me just say that you learn a lot about the human personality when you watch thousands of people from behind the felt of a blackjack table.

I wrote a novel, Cruise Quarters, about my experiences living and working on a cruise ship. While I was promoting my book, I received a request from a website asking me to provide a quote from my novel. Imagine my surprise a few months later when I Googled my name and I found a list of websites where my quote had been used. The first and most exciting was Goodreads, where it was listed as a top gambling quote. Being a writer, I was thrilled because Goodreads is the world’s largest site for readers. Online casinos picked up my quote, people on social media sites, and even Seeking Alpha, a financial website. My words have even been used as part of a legal argument in an Indian lawsuit. 

Working at a casino is hard. You are on your feet for eight hours, with seven demanding faces in front of you. Even though it is a challenging job I like it because I know all the rules and procedures I have to follow. The rules are all written down in a very big manual.

The truth behind that one quote was not all that I learned by working at a casino. So I have decided to share some more of my wisdom with you. Even though you might not ever visit a casino, hopefully you enjoy them.   

 

1. It is hard to walk away from a winning streak, even harder to leave the table when you are on a losing one.

This is the quote that started it all. As a dealer, I have watched this a million times from behind the table. People who are losing will pull out more money then they budgeted, will borrow from their friends or even open up a line of credit. Because they just believe that on the next hand, the next spin, or the next throw of the dice things will turn around. It reminds me that sometimes desperation will lead you to do crazy things. How many times have we driven by an ex-boyfriends house or drunk dialed them even though we know that we are never, ever, getting back together.

2. A player in the last stage of her gambling addiction, just wants to lose all her money.

To take it one step further when someone stays at the table so long and loses so much money, they don’t walk away with that last fifty dollars. Instead they prefer to lose it all. When they leave I watch them walk away with an empty wallet and a look of relief spread across their face. Like in that bad relationship you have to do all the crazy stuff, to convince yourself that it is really over, and only then can you begin again.

3. Before you sit down at the table make sure the dealer runs an honest game.

All the casinos in America run honest games, licensed by the state and the federal government. But you need to research the rules of each casino, whether you get paid even money or time and a half on a blackjack, or if they stay or hit on soft seventeen, because those rules can really change your odds of winning. The same applies to dating, always make sure the person you are dating is sincere. If you are dating a guy with a girlfriend or even worse a wife your odds for success go down. And if you are dating a serial womanizer, just give up.

4. In life, there are gamblers and there are people who gamble. Gamblers have studied the odds.

As I have said the rules at a casino really matter. To a gambler the difference in the rules at certain casinos can mean the difference between winning and losing. So think like a gambler, research a potential date like a gambler researches the odds at a casino. Serious gamblers follow the rules of basic strategy for blackjack. These rules are designed to increase a gamblers odds of winning at the table. 

Since I consider myself the Hopeful Romantic, I have developed a basic strategy of love. Bits of hard-earned wisdom designed to increase the odds that your relationship will work. Click here to read my Basic Strategy of Love

5. Juice might get you in the door, talent keeps you there.

The casino business is like any other industry the people you know, your connections might help get you the job, but you must have the talent to succeed. In love the same rule applies. You might have an initial connection but it will take work to make the relationship work.

6. A winning streak can only last for so long.

No matter how great your life is going, one day you will hit a road block. I consider myself a realistic optimist. I hope for the best but prepare for the worst. In life that means saving for an emergency fund. I think in life we also need an emergency fund for our relationships, a back up plan if things don’t work out.   

7. You’ve got to gamble big to win big.

You have to gamble big, but only if you have studied the odds, considered all the obstacles along the way, and have a back up plan. I think that in affairs of the heart you have to love with all your heart. I took a huge chance when I married my Scottish husband Ray, after only knowing him for three months. On top of that we moved from a cruise ship to Palm Springs. It was a huge gamble but many years later, I am happy to report both the move and the marriage have paid off.

8. The best part of playing one-on-one with the dealer is that there are no other players to piss you off.

I guarantee that if you sit down at a blackjack table that it won't be long before one of the other players will be happy to offer you some unsolicited advice. Players just don’t sit there in silence, they are happy to let you know how you or the other players screwed up the hand. Somebody took the bust card, someone didn't hit when they should have, the list goes on and on. 

That is why I love dealing with just one player at the table, especially if it is a person who knows that if they follow the rules of basic strategy they greatly increase their odds of winning. In life there is always someone giving you advice you never asked for, telling you why your relationship is doomed. Sometimes they are right and sometimes they are wrong. The best advice my father ever gave me was, you have to make your own mistakes, no one else can make them for you.  

9. When people work in the money store, they begin to believe the money is theirs.

In a casino the dealers and the players are surrounded by money. The dealer stands in front of a tray filled with chips and sometimes the temptation to throw a few of those chips into their tip box is just too great. Even though they know that if they get caught it will end their career, they do it because they feel like the money will never be missed.

I have been watching a fascinating mini-series on HBO, Love Fraud. It is the story of a guy who travels around the country scamming hopeful women looking for love out of their money. So, people be careful, guard your money and your heart, because sometimes when you date people they begin to believe your money is theirs. The same goes for lending money. A wise lawyer once told me, once you lend someone money they begin to believe it is theirs.

10. You can’t replay the last hand, that is in the past. You have to play the cards in front of you.

Regret, that is what holds most people back. So many times at the blackjack table people are in their head replaying the last hand, which means that they can’t concentrate on the cards in from of them. 

No matter what cards life have dealt you, good or bad, I know one thing for sure, you can't relive the past. Most of us can’t get over that last relationship, or that last job. But when you keep playing that script in your head you spend so much time regretting the past that you miss the present. If you keep pining for the guy or girl who hurt you in the past, you will never see the person standing in front of you now.  

Isn't that what being in the present is all about?



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Cara Bertoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. Because it often does.