7 Awesome Things I Didn't Realize I Would Love So Much When I Moved Into A High-Rise

 

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There are seven awesome things I didn’t realize I would love so much when I moved into a high rise. I have lived in many places, houses, apartments, a cabin on a cruise ship, and even lived in a trailer in the desert one hot miserable summer. But a few years ago, my husband and I moved to Florida, so I could move closer to family, and he could work at the Hard Rock. I had one demand I wanted to live on the ocean. It had been a dream of mine all my life. I wanted to go to sleep at night with the sound of the waves roaring in the background. Unfortunately, we installed hurricane doors and windows that work so well I can’t hear the ocean when the doors are shut.

We sold our house, and moved into a much smaller apartment, almost half the size. We live in a complex of four buildings, 800 apartments. Of course, the haters all wondered how I could leave a house for an apartment in the sky.

From Boca Raton to South Beach the A1A is high rise heaven. The road is bordered with high rises Fifty miles of ocean front apartments for every taste. From the glamour of Bal Harbour to the futuristic skyline of Sunny Isles there is a wide range of choices. 

My husband and I love to travel and it is so nice not to have to worry about our apartment when we are gone. Another great perk there is always someone at the reception desk to accept our packages and make sure they will be there when we return from our trip. My husband works until four in the morning, I love knowing that security is near.

 

Our newly renovated lobby!

I don’t know about you, but I have bought many gym memberships but at the end of a long day the thought of getting back in my car and going to the gym is daunting. Now I just have to take the elevator down to gym, they even offer yoga. It is hardly ever busy, and I can always get the machine of my choice.   

Even better than the gym is the restaurant. It will never be awarded a Michelin star but if I’m hungry and lazy I can go downstairs. I hate to get a lukewarm pizza, well I can order a handmade one just a short elevator ride away. That means it is hot and tasty when it arrives at my door.

This is the perk that really seals the deal. The first time I saw beach service was on the French Riviera. You could rent an umbrella and a chair, at exorbitant rates in Cannes. Now, when I decide to go the beach, I ride the elevator down. Someone grabs me a beach chair and an umbrella and I’m set up for a day at the beach, like at a fancy hotel but better, it’s free. Then I grab lunch, beach service is a game changer.

To live in an apartment, you have to embrace a minimalist style. Too much clutter, and you begin to seem like a hoarder. I had to get rid of most of my furniture. It was too big for my apartment, but then I got to buy new stuff. Since I love furniture shopping maybe it was a plus. 

Southern Florida is a mecca for people from all over the world. They all want to live here, Russians, Colombians, Venezuelans, Canadians, and even a few Americans mostly from New York. Needless to say, our homeowners’ meetings are very entertaining.

 

I finally found the end of the rainbow!

The most amazing thing is living on the 22nd floor. I am always in sight of the sea. When I sit on the balcony, I get to watch the birds fly by. Since our apartment overlooks the beach and the famous Broadwalk in Hollywood we can watch the action below us. As a city girl I like to be around people, and here I never have to be alone. One of our favorite things is sitting on the balcony, and watching the cruise ships sail out of Port Everglades. I can lie in bed and pretend I am on am onboard.

I am just trying to spread a little cheer in the world. I would love to hear what is awesome about where you live. Because sometimes we forget that, ‘life is good,’ is not just a slogan on a T-shirt.



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Cara Bertoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. Because it often does.


Married at first Sight - Boston Redeux


Married at First Sight returns to Boston and I couldn’t be happier. When I was younger, I lived in Boston, had a job in high tech, and bought an apartment. At the time I worked at a high-tech firm and traveled the Northeast as a systems analyst on an expense account. I moved there to take advantage of the fact that it is a walking city filled with ethnic neighborhoods, beaches, and a river runs through it, but best of all my father grew up there. There are so many entertainment options, classes, shows, plays, festivals and even rowing that it would be hard to get bored. I also love the accent.

There was just one thing I couldn’t find, a good boyfriend. It would seem like in a city loaded with young, smart and educated people this would be a snap. But in reality, I just met crazy people each one crazier than the next. A boyfriend that didn’t want to see me on our days off, one that always wanted to remind me I wasn’t the one, and one that was massively depressed all the time. If I close my eyes, I can see that lonely woman looking for love. At the time I would have loved a panel of experts picking a mate for me. Since I didn’t have them, I began to think it was me. Discouraged and bored by my job, I ran off to sea to become a croupier and met the love of my life. Glad to know, it really wasn’t me, it was them!

I really feel for these couples. I have watched MAFS faithfully since season one. This is the only reality show I would have applied for if I was single because single people need all the help they can get.  I consider myself a ‘Hopeful Romantic’ and every season I hope the experts get it right. It also has a remarkable success rate. Way higher than the Bachelor. It is great to see all the happy couples the show has produced like Shawniece and Jephte from season 6, the first time the show filmed in Boston. Now it is season fourteen and the weddings begin soon. After watching the matchmaking special, I will make my predictions, then later on in the season I will update them. It is always so great to see how these new couples react to one another. I think watching MAFS is the greatest tool singles can watch and learn from to help them navigate relationships.

 


Our first couple Lindsey and Mark seem ideal on paper. Both are kind, caring and love cats. This is the second time that Mark has tried out for the show. The first question is, will Lindsey be attracted to him? Attraction seems to be the most important part of the equation. Occasionally, a woman will grow attraction for a guy so let’s hope Lindsey appreciates Mark’s finer qualities. Also, will Mark be able to tolerate Lindsey’s hyper personality? I’m sure she acts out because of insecurities so let’s hope the he makes her feel secure. I have a feeling this couple is doomed.

 


Noi and Steve are another couple that seem great but don’t they all in the matchmaking special? These two come from big beautiful families. The only problem is that Steve doesn’t have a job at the moment. He is also suffering from a case of wanderlust. Will he be able to stay in Boston long enough to make the marriage work? I think they just might pull it off and stay together.

 


Katina and Olajuwon look great together. My only question is, why do men think that women want to go to strip clubs with them to look at other women? That does not seem like a very fun thing to do. Ask Yara from Ninety Day Fiancé, Jovi took her to a strip club, and she was bored to tears. The fact that he is just a little too much into his looks, that does not bode well for them. I think they will break up spectacularly.

 


I think this can work out if Jassmina can get over the fact that Michael is short, not that short, just too short for a woman who wants a tall guy. He seems wonderful and very dedicated to the process. Can he get over the fact his sisters have spoiled him like no other woman will? I just don’t think she will be attracted  to him and that it will all fall apart. So regretfully I am giving them two thumbs down.

 


This last couple pull at my heartstrings. Chris is the kind of guy I would have loved to have found when I lived in Boston. He is cute, motivated to work hard, he even does his own videos as the ‘Real Estate Professor.’ Alyssa rescues animals and he wants a dog, what could go wrong? I don’t know if she will be attracted to him, he seems a little softer than she is. He probably isn’t the type of guy she will fall for, but he is the type of guy she should. I don’t see it lasting but the great thing about the show is that we will soon find out!

 Let me know what you think about the new couples. Check back here throughout the season for updates and predictions.


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Click the link below to order at Amazon

Casino Queen (Night Hawk Casino Series Book 1) - Kindle edition by Bertoia, Cara. Mystery, Thriller & Suspense Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

Click the link below to order at Barnes and Noble 

Casino Queen by Cara Bertoia | NOOK Book (eBook) | Barnes & Noble® (barnesandnoble.com)

Cara Bertoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

With her life on the line, can she pull out a win?

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