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THE FIRST CREW OF BELOW DECKS ABOVE DECKS

Ever since I was very young I always wanted to run away to sea. I was born in Charleston, S.C. and love the ocean. I did finally join a cruise ship as a croupier and everywhere we sailed to, there were yachts. At the Cannes Film festival there were gorgeous yachts filled with beautiful Europeans. In the Caribbean the yachts moored in secluded coves too small for cruise ships. Have you ever been curious about what it is like to be part of the crew on a private yacht?

Now I have your answer. Bravo's reality show Below Decks is returning with its ninth season, and I have been cruising with them since the launch. In the pilot the show sailed out of Saint Martin which holds a special place in my heart because my future husband and I had our first date there. It is a beautiful island divided into a Dutch side filled with duty-free shops and a French side filled with fantastic restaurants.  We both worked on a cruise ship, the best part of a cruise ship is that you have much more time off than the crew of a private yacht. They work with fifteen other crew members we worked with over six hundred. This season the crew will sail out of Saint Kitts another beautiful island in the Caribbean.

In the show the crew is on call twenty-four hours a day. The officers are trained professionals, but most of the cast is a group of attractive people doing essentially service and maintenance jobs; you won’t need your college degree here. But since the pay is all in tips and room and board is included what a great place to save up money to pay off those loans. The cost of the cruise can run up to $150,000 a week, and the average tip is between 10 to 15%v of the cost, so tips for each crew member averages between $1,000 and $2,000 a week. That being said some of the guests are very difficult, the chef has to change his menu on a guest’s whim, and the stewards might have to not only unpack but iron all the passengers’ clothes. You would think they would go on vacation to relax but to type ‘A’ personalities making demands and finding fault are part of a good vacation. Since most people bring their friends it is also a way to try to impress your mates with your importance. It really does show how hard the work is and that you have to have nerves of steel, to handle out of line comments such as ‘how great your tits are’.

Because this is a reality show, the focus is definitely on bad behavior. On their one day off a week it is all about getting pissed and hooking up. It was like that on a cruise ship we even had a crew bar, but we had some time off everyday, so when we got to port our major focus was sight seeing - and then getting pissed. As for shipboard romances, being a hopeful romantic I am all for them. I met my husband when we both worked on a cruise ship, and with no commute to work, or bills to pay for rent or food, it was a wonderful experience, a vacation from the real world. We computed everything in ships time, a week at sea is like a month on land for a new romance. The most fun part of every season is figuring who will hook up.

Every season has their issues. This is what I wrote about the first season. Sam hates Adrienne her boss because she is very demanding. CJ is upset because the captain keeps telling him to put his shirt back on. I can tell you if Sam was on a cruise ship she would have been booted off before the week was over for insolence. On a cruise ship an officer is to be obeyed. Only Captain Lee and Eddie Lucas are still cast members and they are the heart and soul of the cast.

This show will be interesting for anyone who loves to cruise. The setting is beautiful and there are facts to be gleaned between the cat-fights. The crew works hard and parties hard, but the work is the main focus for any crew. I just wish the show was more focused on the mechanics of the cruise world but alas the show is on Bravo not the Discovery Channel. I left cruise ships with wonderful memories and a Scottish husband, and thought not everyone can be that lucky. I am sure the crew of Below Decks will cherish this experience for the rest of their lives.



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Cara Bertoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. Because it often does.rtoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

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How To Travel the World and Fall in Love Without Leaving Your Couch

I used to be a great traveler, but now like the rest of the world Covid anxiety has kept me at home, although I still need to escape from my everyday world. I still love to go places, but now I mostly do it through my imagination. We can all travel the world from the comfort of our couches. To decide where to go, I scour the lists on my Newsfeeds and I search the streaming services we subscribe to. I have probably watched thousands of trailers in the last two years. I want to find shows that will entertain me and teach me about the countries they are filmed in. I can’t even put my process into words, but as the Hopeful Romantic I want something that grabs and inspires me. Today I will share a few of my favorites but only a short synopsis, no spoilers just enough to pique your interest. Please e-mail me at carabertoia@yahoo.com and share your top picks with me.  

 

Midnight Diner

My husband works nights and this winter our ritual every evening before he went to work was to watch an episode of Midnight Diner. I was won over the first time I watched the intro about a wonderful show set in a diner in Tokyo that opens at midnight. This is a place where the dreamers and the losers come to share their sorrows and their joys with the Master. Every episode tells a new story about one of the patrons of the diner. Listening to their stories you learn so much about life in Japan. I was so sad by the end of the last season that I wouldn’t be able to spend any more time with my friends at the diner. And for those of us that love Japanese food, at the end of the episode they demonstrate the proper way to cook the dishes on the show. Watch on Netflix

Tokyo Girl

For me this series is Japan’s answer to Sex and the City. The story is about Aya a woman who moves from her town of Akita to Tokyo hoping to make a new life in the big city. You won’t find a fairy tale here just a realistic look at the life a single girl faces trying to navigate a city filled with its own prejudices. The name of each episode relates to the neighborhood she lives in. Through the years she moves around the city in her search for a better life, a magazine life. What I loved about the series was its insight into the dating life of a modern career woman in a big city. I really felt for Aya as she traversed the years from eighteen to forty-five always in search of that perfect Tokyo life. Watch on Amazon

 

 


The first series that grabbed my heart was The Baker and the Beauty from Israel. I know that they tried to make an American version of the show but nothing compares to the original. The premise of the show is pure Hollywood but the execution is pure Israeli. Noa a famous supermodel falls in love with Amos who bakes pita bread in his parents’ small grocery store. It’s all about the family and Amos’s family will win your heart. It also highlights cultural differences in Israeli society. The characters in this show are fully developed. There are no villains here, they all suffer from their own insecurities. I watched it on Amazon Prime, it is unavailable now but I am sure it will come back.

Shtisel

Although Shtisel is also set in Israel the two series couldn’t be more different. This show is set in the Ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in Jerusalem. It is also a tale of romance; can anyone find a wife for Shulem Shtisel? It follows his story as he tries to make a living as an artist in a very strict community with a rule for almost everything. The show is also the story of the Shtisel family. This isn’t an anti-religious show, instead it shows you how people find strength and community in their faith. How do a people hold on to their beliefs while navigating the modern world? It will make you laugh and cry so please keep your tissues handy. Watch on Netflix

Married at First Sight - Australia

Okay, I admit a reality show might seem like weird choice but stay with me. Married at First Sight – Australia, a show about meeting your mate at the altar is a blast! It differs from the American show which I also love, because it is bigger, has more episodes and that means more drama! Ten couples, a diverse group whose ages range from twenty to the fifty, are pulled from all over Australia.  After the honeymoons they move to a beautiful apartment tower in Sydney as they negotiate the new marriages. Next, they all meet for a dinner party every week. During the season, they travel to each other homes, this is when you get to find out what its like when you match a city girl to a cowboy who lives in the back of beyond. This show is packed with drama, infidelity and a good amount of love at first sight stories. It also makes Australia seem like a wonderful place to live. But as always, the burning question is, will they stay married or will they get a divorce? Watch on Lifetime


Lovesick - Scotland

Whenever my husband gets homesick, we can always watch Lovesick then he can travel the streets of his hometown Glasgow, Scotland. It is a great city with a vibrant downtown, great transportation, and an historic university. The show Lovesick follows a group of ex-students as they live and work in the West End of Glasgow. The premise is that Dylan must let his previous sex partners know that he has chlamydia. Dylan has been a busy man so there are lots of women in his past. Part of the appeal of the show is the chemistry between the characters, and the witty British banter. Watch on Netflix.



Click the link below to order at Amazon

Casino Queen (Night Hawk Casino Series Book 1) - Kindle edition by Bertoia, Cara. Mystery, Thriller & Suspense Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.

Click the link below to order at Barnes and Noble 

Casino Queen by Cara Bertoia | NOOK Book (eBook) | Barnes & Noble® (barnesandnoble.com)

Cara Bertoia is the author of Casino Queen a new mystery novel that will be published by the Wild Rose Press on March 16th. It is based on the many true stories she lived through in her many years in the casino industry although the names have been changed to protect the guilty. Read the blurb here.

Caroline Popov, alone, heartbroken, and deeply in debt ends up in glamorous Palm Springs, California where Native casinos have just opened, offering employment to thousands. She lands a job at the Palm Oasis Casino and is mentored by the charismatic tribal chairman, John Tovar.

Embraced by casino culture, Caroline works her way up to casino manager of the Night Hawk, in the High Desert town of Joshua Tree. There, she is responsible for managing multicultural team members, satisfying the demands of challenging guests, growing revenue while rooting out corruption.

In the process of rediscovering her inner strength, she learns, you have to gamble like your life depends on it. Because it often does.